For autistic children—who experience stress more frequently and intensely—stance becomes a powerful shortcut to understanding:
Why meltdowns escalate
Why reassurance sometimes backfires
Why shutdowns are often misread as refusal
When adults understand stance, they stop reacting to behavior—and start supporting regulation. This compassionate 15-page guide helps to:
Understand stress responses without blame
Identify stance before identifying type
Choose supports that actually calm the nervous system
Reduce power struggles at home
For autistic children—who experience stress more frequently and intensely—stance becomes a powerful shortcut to understanding:
Why meltdowns escalate
Why reassurance sometimes backfires
Why shutdowns are often misread as refusal
When adults understand stance, they stop reacting to behavior—and start supporting regulation. This compassionate 15-page guide helps to:
Understand stress responses without blame
Identify stance before identifying type
Choose supports that actually calm the nervous system
Reduce power struggles at home